Friday, August 04, 2006
5:16 PM
Gosh!!! Waited for cab from 5.30am till 5.50am..... until panicked liao..... Gonna be late! Didn't expected it was so tough to get a cab early in the morning.... Sigh..... Late this morning.......... =(
5:05 PM
It's my Off day..... A very simple and relax day.... went KBOX today..... La La La La......
Supposingly work PM (4pm) tomorrow (Saturday) but my supervisor rang me up asked me if I could work AM (6am) instead..... Hmmm..... although quite reluctant... after OFF day gonna wake up so early!! But I decided to help him since there is someone on MC...
So after KBOX.... I went for a quick dinner with my friend.... and proceeded home..... Slept at 1 am... not very early afterall even though I did made an effort to go home earlier.... Hahahaha.... Well that's ME... Life of An Owl.... Hopefully I can get up on time!!!
Thursday, August 03, 2006
10:25 AM
Today works Termninal 1 afternoon shift....
Right now still in clinic.... It's 1.30am already..... Waiting for 2am.... then can go home liao... Luckily I brought along my notebook... can login to internet... and listen to nice songs....
My sis came Airport to find me today... we ate Wang Jiao noodle in the clinic together... she really enjoyed herself.... catch up with all her ex-colleagues..... even went Giordano to buy Crew Neck T-shirts... $4 each... Cheap Cheap man... Haha... She stayed until 12am.... and mum fetched her home...
Waiting for 2am.......
Sigh.... At 1.50am.... There was a patient want to see a doctor.... for FEVER and SORE THROAT.... I explained the charges will be S$200 Consultation excluding medication after 12mn as the doctor had left and we need to get doctor from main hospital.... and checked if there would like to go to Watson pharmacy to get some medication instead.... However they still wanted to see a doctor.... So I have to activate my doctor from Raffles Hospital A&E.... Sometime don't know why people willing to pay this amount for FEVER and SORE THROAT....
I handed the case to my night nurse at 2am and left the clinic at 2.10am....
Reached home around 2.45am.... bathed and read for a little while before I went to bed at 4am....
It's my off day...... wondering how am I going to spend it... and who do I going to spend it with... kekeke....
Saturday, July 29, 2006
6:03 PM
Met up with Ex-SGH A&E Temp clerks friends for KTV at Tea Lovers.... It has been a long time since last met up with them.... There were 8 of us including myself and my sis...
Enjoyed myself at the KTV though as usual I don't sing much... Hahaha...
After KTV... I went dinner at Outram then to 'Tang Shui' for tea with someone...
Another off day just passed.... Next off day is next Friday... Recently my Clinic had resumed back to 6 days week... so I left with 1 off day per week.... So sad...
Next week I'll be a Transit nurse... whole week going to work in Transit Clinics... both Terminal 1 and 2....
The terrible thing working in T1 Transit Clinic is that I got to wake up at 5am and reach Clinic by 6am! Gosh! To sleep late is never a problem to me... but it will be a torture for an owl like me to wake up early!!
T1 Working hours:
AM: 0600-1600hr
PM: 1600-0200hr
I just have to force myself to sleep earlier on those days I work T1 morning... keke...
But please don't give me PM T1 and AM T1 the following day... It will kill me!
Wish me good luck.... Hope I can learn as fast as possible the T1 work flow...
Friday, July 21, 2006
12:43 PM
Today particiated in the Sparrowhawk 2 Exercise at the Airport...
Saw my face flashed twice in the Channel 8 and U News this evening... So funny... Some of my friends can even recognise my eyes and rang me up.... Hahaha... when I was with FULL gear.... PPE.... Gown... N95 Mask... Glove...
Tuesday, July 18, 2006
11:34 AM
Back from Taiwan for 3 weeks and Cambodia for 2 weeks....
Feeling much better after travelling around...
Think sometime in life... we just do not have a choice... but to face the reality...
I am moving on with my life.... and I really hope to go back to my usual self soon...
There are lots of memories... be it happy or sad.... but have to admit the fact that it was all past... and there will be no way for any U-turn....
Move on Shan.... Be Brave and Strong.... U can do it.... Stand up to your feet again when you fall...
I'm always reminding myself...... There is no one else who can help me... other than myself...
Friends can only give me advices... but I'm the only one know what is best for myself...
11:28 AM
10th July 2006
it was a memorable night... Watched World Cup 2006 Final in the Airport....
It has been a month since I last spent over night in the Transit...
The other time was exactly 1 month ago.... 9th June... That was the 1st day of the World Cup...
So I actually watched the World Cup Opening and Closing in the Airport...
My mum was so understanding enough... She drove my sis to the airport at 12mn to accompany me after I knocked off, to watch World Cup with me... Unbelievable right?? Moreover she got school the following morning... Hahahaha.... BEST MUM in the Universal!
So me and my sis hanged around in the Airport.. catching up with our Wang Jiao and Genki friends...
1 of my Genki good friend joined us to watch the Final match too... 3 of us walked over to Transit 1... to eat Mc Donald prior the match... and we watched the first half of the match at T1... then crossed over to T2 for the second half... Cool isn't it?? So exciting...
It was really a cool match... My sis and I was so excited.... Our Italy won the match! And I won 1 year free flow Genki sushi from my friend.... Wahahahaha~
The 1st meal was already received... Free delivery to my Transit clinic somemore! He is BEST man! *LoL* It was my favourite Yummie Salmon Sashimi and Sushi pack... =) Thanks pal
10:55 AM
8th July, 2006
Raffles Medical Group Family Day.... My mummy, gor gor and mei mei all joined me for the Family Day event... It was a very simple Family Day... hope they enjoyed themselves though... =)
I won the Lucky Draw 16th price... kekeke... Shopping Vouchers.... though not a very fantastic prize but still thanks god.... thanks buddha... for the luck... The food was quite okay.... Buffet style plus BBQ... Yummie~
Here's some photo me and my mei snapped with the SNAKE..... Errrkkkksssss....

Tuesday, June 20, 2006
4:07 AM
It has been a long long time since I last blog...
Partly is because I have not been doing very well lately... so quite reluctant to drop down any unhappiness moments here...
Always believe that as long as having a sincere heart to everyone... things should turn out well...
Looks like it proven me wrongly... I always try to BELIEVE... but after believe and being postive... Is that what I get in return? Really can't believe such thing can ever happened to me...
Ok... Some of the updates from me...
Just shared 1 good news: I finally collected my Graduate Diploma in Business Administration... Had my Graduation Ceremony on 26th May 2006... Here are some of the photos:




Went for my Annual Secondary School Class Gathering on the 3rd June... So happy to meet up with everyone... We had steamboat at Marina Bay... then to Boat Quay TCC... Some of them brought their kids along... Isn't that cool?
My God daughter aka Yeahui's eldest daughter
Though recently something major had happened in my life... I just have to face the reality... accept what had happened... and move on with my life... I believe I can do it.... It's just a matter of time... Hopefully the happy-go-lucky ShanShan will be back soon....
After knowing the horrible truth... I have learnt to be stronger... I won't allow myself to fall down so easily again...
Will be flying to Taiwan tomorrow.... Really need a breather away from the Airport, away from my work place and anything that reminds me of the past... Need time off to relax my mind... to plan my life ahead... I won't allow myself to waste any additional time from now on....
The Past was gone.... Future is still unknown... Most importantly is Present...
Take care all my dearest friends.... I miss all of you....

Monday, May 22, 2006
10:30 AM
8 Ways To Handle An Argument
by Jennifer Good
Let's face it, no one is perfect. No matter how hard you try, or how loving and respectful of a couple you are, you are bound to get into a disagreement once in a while. With a few tips though, it doesn't have to be something that can harm your relationship. The next time you feel an argument starting to form keep in mind these 8 ways to handle an argument!
1. Give your partner enough space to voice his or her concerns.I'm sure you hate it when people interrupt you; give your partner the same respect -- even if you don't agree with what they are saying.
2. Make an extra effort to really understand what you partner is trying to say.It is very easy to fall into the trap of thinking you know what they are saying, when in fact you may not have a clue. If your partner feels like you understand what they are saying, you'll find a way to end the argument far more quickly.
3. Don't say something you'll regret later.Always consider your relationship like a glass. It is sturdy, tough, beautiful and clear when taken care of, but if it is mistreated or mishandled it can end up scratched, cracked or even broken. Take care in choosing the words you say when you are in the heat of the moment.
4. Don't bring in past woes.The past is the past... let it stay there. If you dwell on past occurrences, you'll never find a solution for the future your partner will feel less loved and respected, and you will always feel negatively towards your partner. People make mistakes. Give your partner the chance to recover from them, and encourage and support them when they make the right choices.
5. Learn to compromise.If you can learn to compromise, you'll find yourself in fewer disagreements. If you don't like something, then agree with your partner to find some middle ground. This also applies the other way. Be willing to come up with alternative solutions for things your partner doesn't like as well!
6. Realize that no matter what you say, you both may not agree on the issue at hand.An argument is typically started because you want someone to agree with you about something. You think that the other person must not know all the facts, so you begin to explain it to them. The more your partner still disagrees with you, the more upset you usually get. But, if you realize that sometimes it is best to just let yourselves agree to disagree -- you'll show your partner that you not only respect their opinion, but respect their individuality as well. You never know, maybe later on they (or even you!) might change their mind.
7. Make a commitment to talk about the situation until it is handled.It's far too easy to run off and avoid your partner, or give them the silent treatment. Instead, make a commitment right now to each other to respect each other enough to work it out -- even if it takes all night. Nothing is unsolvable when you are working together to truly find a peaceful resolution.
8. Make your relationship with your partner your first concern when you are in the middle of a disagreement.This does not mean bend over backwards for them or compromise your integrity. Just keep in mind that the person you are arguing with is your best friend, lover and soul mate. If you both keep that at the forefront of your mind in an argument, it will keep what matters most away from cruel words or intent -- your heart!
Got this from Genevie's Blog... Find it really useful.... So decided to share it in my Blog...
In life... always full of ups and downs, especially when it comes to relationship.... Conflicts is inevitable... I just hope everyone will be equipped with the knowledges and capabilities to handle things more tactfully... not to hurt your love ones over and over again... Note that: It takes TIME to build up love and trust but it can take mintues just to destroy everything... We all live only once.... so most important is to be be happy and always remember we must live with no regrets...
Treat everyday as a last day.... The next day as a Bonus day....